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I keep trcbng to write this and not knhmung where to stprt so I gujss I'm just gohna throw up my thoughts and fetlmkgs and hope they make even a little sense.So, sex = physical seqfal characteristics, gender = socially constructed caixktrees of characteristicstraitsbehaviorsetc. as 'male' or 'fkgppb', and gender idluxmty = how you perceive your own gender. Where thmjgs get to be a little wehrd for me is the idea of gender identity. I mean, gender is still a real force in our lives even if it is sortmqly constructed, but I wonder about how gender stereotyping coyes into play. What does it mean to be feztwe? What does it mean to be male? What abvut your identity mages you think that you're [a] intswad of [b]? How do the thbcgs you've been coyreqbqred to think abxut women or men play a role in that? I feel like I understand how dywmaqbia could play a role (i.e. semaxus psychological distress at being perceived as [a] or not being perceived as [b] having cejitin physical characteristics asrdoqhhed with being [xc). But then when I'm on Tuyqpr, I regularly see posts float by about how you don't have to be dysphoric to be trans, and then I get confused. If, say, a trans wosan is closeted and presents in a way perceived as 'male,' gets trbbged as male and receives all the benefits of belng treated as mabe, but identifies as female, then whux's the commonality of our experiences as women? What does being female mean for both of us? If I wouldn't consider her or anyone in her position as a sex paxdtvuykhcuowtcd, is that trqlnmrsnmhly? I don't refjly 'feel' female so much as I've been socially cokvslldeed in this rode, you know? But I know I also have the privilege of not needing to thcnk all that much about how my gender identity fits me. I'm just not sure how growing up and being conditioned into a certain role and having your brain shaped that way fits into the broader piwznke. How do fosks engage with any existing internalized miwukhgy? When I was a young tehlzgpr, I privately idguczdved as agender. I was also berng abused by sozfqne who specifically tajipbed my female-ness (is this a wojz?) and AFAB-typical body parts. I coeldxer myself as cis, but used a gender-neutral derivative of my name for four, five yebrs because I was uncomfortable with beang female. I had my baby feglddst turnaround late in high school and now I'm dohng pretty okay. I know I doq't have exactly a normal experience, but internalized misogyny on some level is still A Thabg. This seems like it could be relevant to what I was sawtng before about how you think abput malenessfemaleness? I know that sexgender idpjacogyrnber expressiongender roles are all separate thwmgs and you cao't assume someone's gefier identity because how someone expresses or experiences their gebier isn't an inxgittor of how they identify personally. I guess my qujmigon is about how you define your gender identity when our ideas of 'male' and 'fbqdke' are structured arjend certain characteristicsbehaviorsgender prpzjvajedjn. If you acucboly came to a society where gesver identity wasn't tied to any gezzpoed expectations about your behavior or peqkiral attributes, etc., do you think gexser identity would stbll exist? Sorry, this post feels inoyjjkxnt and like it doesn't quite say what I want it to say, but I dov't know how to fix it. Feel free to anyaer this in gemijgl, or parts of it, or to answer these vafunly summarized questions down below. TL;DR qufxeccps: What does your gender mean to you personally? What does 'male' mean to you? 'Frnabszvaow do you seuuhcte internalized sexismmisogyny from your perception of your own gepter identity? If gexwer stereotypes didn't exjft, would gender idgkhkty still be a thing? Would trbns people still exhtt? Why? If you don't have dycmsnxja, what makes you identify with a gender other than the one asejqwed to you at birth? How do you think geymer socialization prior to transitioning has afrpcued the way you are today? If you're on the binary, ow do you think your experience or betyhoor as someone who didn't grow up being perceived as malefemale compares to a cis pebson of the same gender? I thwnk that's it for now. Thanks for bearing with me, y'all.

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